Our Problems are Universal

I have been traveling and moving often in the last four years. I have lived in Australia for nine months and visited New Zealand twice. I also spent a total of 10 months in Hawaii, dividing my time between the four major islands. My journey took me to Sante Fe, New Mexico, Ashland, Oregon, Southern and Northern California, Florida, and Puerto Rico. They are all beautiful places that I have been grateful to enjoy.

In the past, I have lived in Brooklyn, New York, The Foothills of the Sierra Mountains, and Sedona, Arizona. Being an extrovert, I love to interact with people. As a Marriage, Family Therapist for nearly 30 years, I have counseled many people internationally.

One of my observations is that wherever we live, whoever we are, whatever we do, we all have the same basic issues to resolve. We all improve our lives, when we grow to the point that we can avoid attaching what others do or say to our self-esteem, which includes our self-worth. We are okay no matter what others do or say! This concept helps everyone resolve many problems as well as prevent emotional pain. It feels so good when we remember this truth. What people say or do is about them and not us. We are okay!

A Letter to President Obama

Dear President Obama,

Thank you so much for having the courage to be who you are and follow your heart. I truly believe that you are, and will, make a major difference in many people's lives, as well as the country and the world.

You have the wisdom, clarity and heart to consider all people, and to overcome the corruption, greed, and unfairness in many areas.

I have compassion for what was handed to you during these difficult economical times. However, I know you can help us proudly stand-up again and live the true democracy our founders created. I know that the American people have and will stand-by true leaders for the good of all.

I ask that you spend the financial incentive mostly to create jobs that can benefit our schools, bridges, highways, hospitals, etc. I am convinced that giving people money to purchase things is not going to stimulate the economy in a way that will be effective for a period of time. People need jobs to feel productive and good about themselves. There are many wonderful ways people can earn a living and make a difference.

I also ask that you help people see that a lot money is not what makes them happy. However, high-self-esteem and making a difference will. Expressing love to their families and others, and spending quality time with them is very important. I believe that you are already modeling those things beautifully.

Thank you for being you! I also thank your family for supporting you to lead this wonderful country.

Thank you for all your time, energy, and perseverence to make a major difference.

Many blessings to you and all of us,

Helene Rothschild, MS, MA, LMFT